The Manipulated

When somebody insults you, they push a button and you function like a machine.

They turn you on and then they turn you off.

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They are the manipulator and you are manipulated.

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Anyone can insult you, make you angry, irritated, sad, annoyed.

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Anyone can also make you feel on top of the world.

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You feel based on another’s manipulation.

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Every action is self-perpetuating, every thought self-perpetuating.

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Life has no obligation to fit your narrative.

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So why approach situations like a vending machine?

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When someone hurls an insult at you, become a receiver. If you don’t accept it and remain detached and keep a distance, what can they do?

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Abuses are fireballs when they throw it, but the moment it reaches you, let your coolness extinguish it.

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Make every action born out of your awareness, not their manipulation.

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Reflect life like a mirror, but don’t carry it with you in your head.

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