Relaxing is the absence of thought.
When thought is not there, the mind can relax.
Understand how to notice your thoughts.
Picture them being read out loud as one thought passes another.
The next time you’re in the middle of a thought, and you become aware of it, it will suddenly stop.
Relaxing is a state of mind where thoughts are not moving to the future, nor the past. It simply stay in place with you like a silent pool of energy.
If sitting silently scares you, then you have an obsessive mind that continuously asks you to think.
The thinking becomes the escape from yourself. An act to forget your worries and anxieties.
Allow the thinking from the activities of the day to discontinue.
You can’t force it—the human mind is too clever to allow that.
Simply become aware and it will stop.
Relaxation means having more than you can ever ask for in this very moment.
If you desire, you can’t relax.
If you are concerned about the future, you can’t relax.
When the clock stops; when time ceases to exist; when you begin to dissolve in your own energy.
Then you’ll know you’re relaxing.